"Children are not a distraction from more important work. They are the most important work." — C.S. Lewis

Tuesday, August 19, 2025

Parenting in the Realm of Fae (Episode 001): Potty Training With Pixies


The Calm Before the Chaos

Early morning in the land of faeries has a way of making you believe anything is possible. The sunlight drifted lazily through the velvet folds of giant rose petals, scattering warm pink light onto the mossy floor. Tiny motes of golden dust shimmered in the air like stars that had overslept and missed the dawn. Somewhere nearby, a gentle brook sang a lullaby to itself, its voice mingling with the soft hum of fairy wings passing overhead.

The air smelled of honeydew, freshly gathered from blossom tips, and I breathed it in deeply. Today, I told myself, would be the day. My resolve was ironclad. We were going to master the potty.

My daughter, on the other hand, had very different plans.

Barefoot, giggling, and sticky from an unexplained source (likely jam), she skipped around the clearing in her little dress, eyes sparkling with mischief. The potty sat in a place of honor nearby, looking pristine and thoroughly ignored.

A gentle neighbor fairy floated down from a blossom perch, wings glinting in the light. “Today’s the perfect day for big girl magic,” she encouraged, her voice like the chime of a silver bell.

I smiled. Perfect day or not, I suspected “big girl magic” might be harder than it sounded.

Mischief on the Horizon

It started with flickers of light darting between the mushrooms. At first, I thought they were fireflies. Then came the rustle of leaves, the barely-suppressed snickering, and the faint pop! of teleportation magic.

I groaned. Pixies.

Three of them tumbled into view, each as unique as they were exasperating. Tiddle, the self-proclaimed leader, wore a crooked crown made of acorn caps. Sprank had hair like a dandelion puff mid-explosion and an obsession with “improvements.” Nib, the smallest, perpetually smelled faintly of cinnamon and trouble.

“We heard today is potty day!” Tiddle announced proudly, puffing out his chest. “The Potty Patrol has arrived to assist!”

Assist. I knew that word in Pixie meant “create chaos under the guise of good intentions.”

Sprank produced a flourish of glitter. “We’ve enchanted it so she’ll enjoy it!”

That was my first moment of true concern.

Indeed, when my daughter lifted the lid of the potty, a lively polka burst forth from nowhere, complete with accordion and cheerful oom-pah beat.

“See?” Nib beamed. “Fun!”

Fun was one word for it.

Sensory Overload

“Come on, sweetheart,” I coaxed, holding out my hand. “Let’s try sitting like a queen on her throne.”

She toddled over, the pixies hovering like overly enthusiastic parade marshals. The potty seat now glistened unnaturally, sparkles puffing up into the air with every movement.

Then the smells hit me — lavender… and fried onions?

The polka started up the second she sat, and my daughter’s face split into the kind of grin that spells doom for productivity. She began to wiggle to the beat, her tiny feet kicking against the moss in rhythm.

“Look! She’s dancing!” Sprank clapped, delighted.

“She’s not supposed to be dancing,” I muttered under my breath.

After a solid minute of giggles and shimmying, it was clear no actual progress was being made. My patience thinned. Could I legally banish pixies? Probably not. Could I want to? Absolutely.

The Pixies Double Down

Apparently unsatisfied with the results, the pixies huddled together, whispering. Then Sprank leapt into action with a pouch of iridescent powder. “The problem,” he declared, “is ambience!”

Before I could stop him, he tossed the “Motivation Dust” in a sparkling arc. It shimmered midair… and summoned half the local forest.

A chipmunk, two squirrels, a wide-eyed deer, and — inexplicably — a hedgehog appeared, forming a polite semicircle around the potty.

The forest went eerily silent except for the cough of a squirrel that seemed both judgmental and sympathetic.

My daughter found this absolutely hysterical. In an act of pure toddler genius, she grabbed her toy teapot, placed it in the potty bowl, and began pouring imaginary tea for her audience.

The “helpful” fairies swooped in with calming rosewater to “clean up,” but the petals and moss floor turned slick as ice. I skidded dangerously, catching myself just in time.

The resulting aroma? Wet flowers, rosewater, and crushed toddler snack crumbs. An olfactory experience I can only describe as “questionable at best.”

Mother’s Fairy Friends Step In

That’s when Maribelle arrived.

If sunshine could frown, it would look like her when she caught the pixies mid-prank. The elder fairy, graceful in a gown of morning mist, landed between us with the authority of someone who could scold a storm cloud into behaving.

“Pixies,” she said in a voice as soft as velvet and twice as firm, “helping means encouraging. Quietly. Without… circus music.”

Tiddle looked at his feet. Sprank tried (and failed) to look innocent. Nib just waved sheepishly.

Maribelle turned to me with a kind smile and pressed something small into my palm — a glowing bead warm to the touch. “A Focus Charm,” she explained. “It hums with a steady rhythm. Very calming for little ones.”

Indeed, when I gave it to my daughter, it thrummed gently, like the beat of a tiny heart.

The pixies agreed — with dramatic sighs — to “be good.” Though they still hovered in the background, giggling under their breath.

Comedy and Success

With the Focus Charm in her hand, my daughter climbed back onto the potty. This time there was no glitter, no polka, no random scents. Just the soft hum of the charm and the faint smell of chamomile from the tea brewing nearby.

A golden glow wrapped around her, making her look as if she’d stepped onto a magical stage. Even the forest creatures seemed to settle, as if understanding this was a moment worth witnessing.

Then — of course — fate intervened.

A single leftover sparkle from earlier drifted lazily down, landing squarely in the potty. The resulting rainbow-colored poof filled the air with a burst of harmless, shimmering mist.

My daughter laughed, but to my surprise… she stayed put. Minutes later, the victory was ours.

Cheers erupted from every corner — fairies, pixies, woodland creatures. Even the hedgehog seemed pleased.

Mother’s Takeaway

Later, as I tidied the now slightly polka-scented potty, I reflected on the day. Yes, it had been absurd. Yes, it had tested my patience in ways I hadn’t thought possible. And yes, the potty would forever smell faintly of onions.

But in the middle of the chaos — in the laughter, the dancing, the sparkle clouds — there was joy. My daughter was happy. And somewhere deep down, I realized that was the real magic.

Raising a child here meant accepting that even the simplest moments came wrapped in enchantment and mild chaos. And maybe that was okay.

Tomorrow, though, I face an even greater challenge. Toothbrushing. Which, if the pixies are to be believed, involves sword fighting with toothbrushes.

Heaven help me.

Sunday, August 17, 2025

Balancing Childhood and Genius

 

The other night, my son asked me, “How much longer until supper?” I told him, “Half an hour.” Without missing a beat, he said, “Okay, that’s just two fifteens.” That’s my six-year-old — quick with numbers, quick with connections, and always making me pause in wonder.

But there’s another side to raising a gifted child. My son’s reading, reasoning, and problem-solving are closer to those of a third or fourth grader, yet he’s still very much a little boy who loves mud puddles and playgrounds. I want to nurture his gifts, but I don’t want to rush him past the magic and joy of being six.

I believe our children’s gifts deserve to shine — but so do their mud pies, playground adventures, and giggles.

Recognizing & Accepting

I first realized how advanced he was when I picked up The Boxcar Children series, intending to read it aloud. Before I could start, he began reading it himself — flawlessly, without a single mistake through the first chapter. I sat there in shock, listening to words I didn’t even know he knew roll off his tongue. Pride washed over me, mixed with surprise.

As thrilling as that moment was, I knew it didn’t mean his entire life had to revolve around academics. Yes, his abilities are beyond his age, but his childhood is just as important.

When planning his homeschool year, I had to decide whether to hold him to one grade level or allow him to complete both second and third grade in a single year — like last year’s jump from kindergarten to first grade. I decided to let him try both, but I watch closely to make sure he’s handling it.

The Pressure Trap


While his doctor supports my approach, others aren’t so restrained. I’ve had strangers — sometimes claiming to be teachers — insist I should put him in advanced library programs or hire tutors to “push him further.” I won’t do that. He already holds himself to high standards, and I refuse to pile on more.

My biggest fear isn’t that he’ll “fall behind” — it’s that he’ll regret missing a “normal” childhood, or worse, resent me for pushing too hard. Burnout at age six is a real possibility.

One night, as I tucked him into bed, I noticed he was upset. He finally admitted, “We don’t get to do stuff together anymore.” By “stuff,” he didn’t mean lessons — he meant playground trips, museums, and fun outings. His request? A visit to the NASA Visitor Center. That conversation was a wake-up call: genius or not, he needs space to just be a kid.

Protecting Childhood


Unstructured play isn’t just fun — it’s where creativity, resilience, and problem-solving thrive. Research from the American Academy of Pediatrics shows that free play fosters emotional health and builds critical thinking skills. Another study from the University of Cambridge found that downtime often leads to greater innovation in children.

My son loves unstructured time, though occasionally he’ll complain about being bored. I’m still working on balancing boundaries — too much structure and he misses play; too little and he pushes back on discipline.

Sleepovers, playground trips, and silly crafts are non-negotiables in our house. I won’t sacrifice his social growth for academics. Some of my favorite moments are watching him and his little brother transform a cardboard box into anything — a rocket ship, a treasure chest, or the headquarters of an imaginary pirate raid.

Those moments, more than perfect test scores, are what will carry him forward in life.

Nurturing Genius Gently


I feed his curiosity through a mix of workbooks, computer programs, and hands-on projects. Still, the goal isn’t perfection — it’s exploration. That’s something he struggles with; mistakes frustrate him deeply. No matter how many times I remind him that mistakes are part of learning, he wants every attempt to be flawless.

To help with frustration and tantrums, I’ve connected him with a therapist who understands gifted children’s emotional needs.

Sometimes learning happens in the most relaxed moments. During his limited TV time, he’s picked up new skills from shows like Nature Cat or YouTube videos about Roblox and Minecraft building. Without any pressure from me, he absorbs concepts and applies them in his own projects.

These gentle nudges — rather than strict drills — often lead to his most joyful learning.

The Family Balance


In our house, everyone participates in learning. His younger brother does summer schoolwork, Grandma helps with lessons, and his cousin takes him for physical education workouts.

But we also protect time that’s just for family fun. Board games are a staple in our home, giving us laughter and connection. And once a year, we spend an entire day at the zoo. The boys get to eat treats they rarely have, marvel at the animals, and watch me pretend to be terrified of snakes and spiders (which, to be honest, isn’t entirely pretend).

Lessons Learned


Balancing a gifted child’s needs with a happy, playful childhood is an ongoing process — one that shifts with every growth spurt, new skill, and changing interest.

To other parents walking this path: it’s okay to slow down. Don’t forget the simple moments, like curling up for a movie and snuggling. In my son’s eyes, those are often more special than programming his beloved robot.

More than anything, I hope he remembers a childhood full of joy, adventure, and love — with plenty of memories that had nothing to do with schoolwork.

Saturday, August 16, 2025

Quick Recipes For Those Who Love Peanut Butter

  1. Peanut Butter Banana Smoothie
  2. Classic Peanut Butter Cookies
  3. Peanut Butter Overnight Oats







Peanut Butter Banana Smoothie

Serves: 2
Prep Time: 5 minutes
Cook Time: 0 minutes

Ingredients:

  • 2 ripe bananas

  • 1/4 cup peanut butter

  • 1 cup milk or non-dairy milk

  • 1 cup ice

  • 1 tbsp honey or maple syrup (optional) 

Instructions:

  1. Place bananas, peanut butter, milk, ice, and honey in a blender.

  2. Blend until smooth and creamy.

  3. Pour into glasses and serve immediately.

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Classic Peanut Butter Cookies

Serves: 24 cookies
Prep Time: 10 minutes
Cook Time: 10 minutes

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup peanut butter

  • 1 cup sugar

  • 1 egg

Instructions:

  1. Preheat oven to 350°F.

  2. Mix peanut butter, sugar, and egg in a bowl until smooth.

  3. Roll dough into small balls, place on a baking sheet, and press each with a fork to make a crisscross pattern.

  4. Bake for 10 minutes, then cool before serving.

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Peanut Butter Overnight Oats

Serves: 1
Prep Time: 5 minutes (plus overnight chilling)
Cook Time: 0 minutes

Ingredients:

  • 1/2 cup rolled oats

  • 1 tbsp peanut butter

  • 1/2 cup milk or non-dairy milk

  • 1 tsp honey or maple syrup

  • 1/4 cup sliced banana or berries

Instructions:

  1. In a jar or container, combine oats, peanut butter, milk, and honey.

  2. Stir well, cover, and refrigerate overnight.

  3. In the morning, stir again and top with fruit before serving.

Friday, August 15, 2025

Amazon Back-to-School Sales 2025: Save Big on Supplies, Tech, and More

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Back-to-school season is here again, and for parents, students, and teachers, that means one thing—shopping lists. From notebooks and backpacks to tech gadgets and dorm room essentials, the list can feel never-ending. Luckily, Amazon’s Back-to-School Sale 2025 is making the transition into the new school year easier (and more budget-friendly) with huge discounts across hundreds of items.

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Whether you’re outfitting a first grader with crayons and glue sticks or a college freshman with a laptop and bedding, Amazon back-to-school deals cover it all. The best part? You can skip the crowded stores, shop from home, and have everything delivered straight to your door—sometimes in just a day or two with Prime.

Why Shop Amazon’s Back-to-School Sale?

The appeal is simple: convenience, variety, and savings. Amazon back-to-school shopping puts thousands of school-related products in one easy-to-navigate section. You’ll find brand names you trust—like Crayola, Jansport, HP, and Sharpie—often at lower prices than in brick-and-mortar stores.

Many items are available as “Subscribe & Save” options, making it easy to stock up on essentials like snacks, paper, and pens throughout the year at a discount. Plus, Amazon lightning deals for back-to-school pop up daily, offering even deeper savings if you act quickly.

What’s on Sale?

Amazon’s Back-to-School Sales aren’t just about pencils and paper. You’ll find:

  • School Suppliesnotebooks, markers, binders, calculators, and more.

  • Backpacks & Lunchboxes – from simple styles to character-themed favorites.

  • Electronics & Techlaptops, headphones, printers, and even tablets for learning.

  • Dorm Room Essentials – bedding, mini-fridges, storage bins, and desk lamps.

  • Clothing & Shoesuniforms, sneakers, and jackets for the cooler months ahead.

If you’re shopping for multiple kids or a classroom, Amazon classroom deals and bulk-buy discounts can be a major budget saver. Teachers can also take advantage of educator discounts and classroom-specific bundles.

Pro Tips for Getting the Best Deals

  1. Start Early – Many of the most popular items sell out quickly once the school rush begins.

  2. Use Filters – Sort by price, discount percentage, or brand to find exactly what you need without scrolling endlessly.

  3. Watch for Lightning Deals – These limited-time offers can save you a lot if you check back frequently.

  4. Check Amazon Warehouse – Gently used or open-box items can be deeply discounted.

  5. Use Prime for Free Shipping – Fast, free delivery is a lifesaver when you realize you forgot something the week before school starts.

Final Thoughts

Back-to-school shopping doesn’t have to drain your energy—or your bank account. Amazon’s back-to-school discounts offer a wide selection, competitive pricing, and unmatched convenience, making it the go-to choice for busy families. With just a few clicks, you can check off your entire list—whether it’s for elementary school, high school, or college—and be ready for the year ahead.

Grab your list, open your browser, and let Amazon do the heavy lifting. Your wallet—and your sanity—will thank you.

Saturday, July 26, 2025

Vintage Desserts From Hard Times

  1. Old-Fashioned Rice Pudding
  2. Poor Man's Cake (No Eggs, No Milk, No Butter)
  3. Depression-Era Apple Crisp

Old-Fashioned Rice Pudding

Serves: 4-6
Prep Time: 5 minutes
Cook Time: 30 minutes





Ingredients:

  • 1/2 cup uncooked white rice
  • 2 cups milk
  • 1/4 cup sugar
  • 1/2 tsp cinnamon (pantry staple)
  • 1/2 tsp vanilla extract (optional, pantry staple)
  • Pinch of salt

Instructions:

  1. In a saucepan, combine rice, milk, sugar, cinnamon, and salt.
  2. Bring to a simmer over medium heat. Stir often to prevent sticking.
  3. Cook for 25–30 minutes, or until rice is tender and mixture is creamy.
  4. Stir in vanilla (if using) and let cool slightly before serving.
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Poor Man’s Cake (No Eggs, No Milk, No Butter)

Serves: 8
Prep Time: 10 minutes
Cook Time: 35 minutes





Ingredients:

  • 1 cup raisins
  • 1 cup water
  • 1/2 cup brown sugar
  • 1/4 cup oil
  • 1 tsp cinnamon, 1/2 tsp nutmeg, pinch of salt (pantry staples)
  • 1 tsp baking soda + 1 1/2 cups flour (pantry staples)

Instructions:

  1. In a saucepan, boil raisins, water, sugar, oil, and spices for 5 minutes. Cool slightly.
  2. Add flour and baking soda, mix well.
  3. Pour into a greased 8x8" pan.
  4. Bake at 350°F for 30–35 minutes. Serve plain or dusted with powdered sugar.
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Depression-Era Apple Crisp

Serves: 6
Prep Time: 10 minutes
Cook Time: 30 minutes




Ingredients:

  • 4 apples, peeled and sliced
  • 1/2 cup oats
  • 1/3 cup flour
  • 1/3 cup brown sugar
  • 1/4 cup butter or margarine
  • 1 tsp cinnamon (pantry staple)

Instructions:

  1. Preheat oven to 350°F. Place sliced apples in a greased baking dish.
  2. In a bowl, mix oats, flour, brown sugar, and cinnamon. Cut in butter until crumbly.
  3. Sprinkle topping over apples.
  4. Bake 30 minutes, or until apples are soft and topping is golden.

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